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With January nearing it’s end and Valentine’s Day, rapidly approaching, we would like to share some of our favorite romantic flirting tips with you.

But first we want to tell you about this powerful new technique that almost no one knows about. It’s about attracting a new romantic partner, or bringing back the closeness and passion in dying relationships… It is now well-known that people communicate with each other on a subconscious level constantly. We are constantly communicating with and affecting each other, whether we realize it or not…

Maybe you’re having problems ‘getting noticed’ by new potential partners?

Maybe you’ve lost that connection or spark with your old partner? …Like Carrie,  before she used the Contact program…

“We are closer now than we have been in years The Contact Program has worked very well for me! And it worked faster than I expected as well. I used it for improving my relationship with my husband of 11 years, and immediately I noticed him responding to me differently. We were in a ‘rut’ so to speak and I wanted to bring back the connection and spice to our marriage. I worked with the visualizations and in some cases actually noticed he would do or say something, just as I had visualized it. That was huge confirmation for me. Our relationship is very strong and we are closer now than we have been in years. I would definitely recommend this for anyone who is looking to effect their relationship. You will be pleasantly surprised.”

Carrie, USA

It is rather difficult to be romantic without first flirting.

What exactly is flirting and how can you adapt some flirting into your own romantic moods and play? To begin, you don’t want to be too aggressive. Start with very friendly gestures and once you have gotten those moves down, and then go for the romantic flirting!

Flirting is a frame of mind:

• Be self-confident and do not be afraid to take risks.
• Be enthusiastic about romance and be positive!

Start a sexy conversation:

• Start with a simple, opening line by saying hello.
• Talk about anything at all, whatever will get the romance going.

Enjoy yourself and have fun:
• Be playful, light-hearted and above all, be spontaneous.
• Show that you can be vulnerable.

Make good use of all props:

• Always use a prop.
• Props will get the conversation started naturally. They encourage conversation and others will want to start talking to you.
• Great props are: pets, children, great jewelry, a wonderful scent, a sweatshirt with your favorite sports team’s emblem, an interesting book or magazine.

Play host:

• Take the lead by taking on the role of host.
• Do not be the passive person in waiting, but rather the lead.

Introduce yourself first:

• Move closer to the person you want to meet and introduce yourself confidently!

Listen-up:

• Everyone loves to be heard and when you are a good listener your partner will be drawn to you.

Make bold eye contact:

• Look your partner in the eye gently (no more than 2-4 seconds) and then look away. You don’t want to stare!

Pay a genuine compliment:

• Your partner will be pleased and will warm up to you more. Show a beautiful smile:
• You will look so much more approachable. Everyone is attracted to a genuine and heartfelt, smile.

So there you go! These are all ground-breakers when wanting to approach someone with romance. We must always be mindful of the fundamentals. When we just dive right in, unexpected, we can turn our loved one off.

Go slow, a step at a time and feeling confident, approach with your best romance moves.

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The road of life twists and turns and no two directions are ever the same. Yet our lessons come from the journey, not the destination. ~Don Williams, Jr~

Life is like a road. There are long and short roads; smooth and rocky roads; and crooked and straight paths. Some roads lead to a life of single blessedness, marriage, and religious vocation. Some roads lead to fame and fortune.

A wrong turn can lead to isolation and poverty. Crossroads can lead to happiness or sadness, victory or disappointment.

Just like any road, there are corners, detours, and crossroads in life. With four roads to choose from and with limited knowledge on where to go, which road will you take?

What guarantees do you have that will allow you to choose the right one? Would you choose or just stay where you are — in front of a crossroad?

There are no guarantees.

This is one of the most important things you need to realize about life. You will never know where a road will lead you until you take it. Nobody said that choosing to do the right thing all the time would always lead you to happiness.

Loving someone with all your heart does not guarantee that your love will be returned. Gaining fame and fortune does not guarantee happiness. There are  many possible outcomes some of which may be beyond your control.

However, you still have control over decisions that you will make and your reactions to different situations.

Wrong decisions are always at hindsight.

Had you known that you were making a wrong decision, would you have gone along with it?

Perhaps not so why would you choose a certain path when you know it would get you lost? Why make a certain decision if you knew from the very beginning that it is not the right one.

It is only after you have made a decision and reflected on it that you realize its soundness. If the consequences or outcomes are good for you, then you have decided correctly. Otherwise, your decision was wrong for you.

Take the risk: Make a decision.

Since life does not offer any guarantees and you will never know if your decision is the right one or the wrong one for you until you make it, then you might as well take the risk and decide.

It is definitely better than staying at the crossroads. While it is true that a wrong turn could get you lost, it could also be an opportunity for an adventure or it could lead to more roads.

It is all a matter of perspective. Make wise decisions. Taking risks is not about being careless and throwing caution to the wind.

Here are some tips that could help you choose the best option in the face of life’s crossroads:

1) Get as much information as you can about the situation.

You will not have the confidence to make a decision when you are armed with limited information.

Just like any news reporter, ask the 5 W’s: what, who, when, where, and why. What is the situation? Who are the people involved? When did this happen? Where is this leading? Why are you in this situation? These are just some of the questions to ask to know more about the situation.

2) Identify and create options.

What are your options in a given situation? What do you do when you think that the situation offers no options? This is the chance to create your own option.

Let your creative mind work. Entertain all ideas. Do not shoot anything down when an idea comes to your head. Sometimes the most outrageous idea could prove to be the right one in the end.

3) Weigh the pros and cons of every option.

Assess each option by looking at the advantages and disadvantages. This way, you get more insights about the consequences of each option.

4) Trust yourself and make a decision.

Now that you have assessed your options, it is time to trust yourself. Remember that there are no guarantees and decisions are best evaluated in hindsight.

Decide and believe that you are choosing the best option at this point in time.

Now that you have made a decision, be ready to face its consequences. It may take you to a place of promise or a land of problems.

The important thing is that you have chosen to live your life instead of remaining a bystander or a passive audience to your own life.

Whether you made the right or wrong decision, only time can tell. Whatever the outcome, learn from it and remember that you always have the chance to make better decisions in the future.

Keep this thought in mind:

You always have a choice between being a lost traveler or an accidental tourist of life.  Choice or “free will” is one of life’s  greatest gifts… But we only reap the benefits of “Free Will Power’ when we recognize we have Choice and Choose to use it.

In the end the quality of your life comes down to either using Your Power or Losing Your Power.

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the winnerMost successful people do not know how they achieved their success.

Success for them just arrived and was a very pleasant and satisfying experience.

If you stand and talk to a successful person for any length of time you will notice that their attitude and belief system is somewhat different to that which you are used to.

They seem to have a different angle or slant on things which you usually find quite refreshing. If you could get close enough to these successful people to analyze their belief system you will find that they do none of the following…

The 10 secrets of failure –

1 -  Remain positive all day long ….for no reason. This is emotionally unnatural!

2 -  Discuss your life’s objectives with negative family and friends.

3 -  Accept gratuitous advice from unsuccessful people.

4 -  Follow-the-herd …because that is what everyone else is doing.

5 -  Watch TV  regularly …this is guaranteed to destroy all creativity.

6 -  Heavily mortgage into debt and absolutely guarantee high stress for years to come.

7 -  Remain in a business/personal situation where you are perpetually unhappy and stressed.

8 -  Tell yourself continually that you are naturally unlucky.

9 -  Become petty-minded and envious when someone you know has a major windfall.

10- Make lifestyle decisions based on spur-of-the-moment emotional feelings.

It is not what winners do that makes them so successful; it is what they don’t do!  They totally avoid the above 10 secrets of failure, either consciously or subconsciously.

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God gave us two ends – one to sit on and one to think with. Success depends on which one you use. Heads you win, tails you lose. ~Author Unknown

One of the most common goals people set when first learning about the Law of Attraction is to attract more money into their lives.  They’re sick of struggling, sick of not having enough, and they’re eager to find relief.

Unfortunately, attracting money is often one of the most difficult objectives, simply because money carries such heavy emotional weight in our lives. There’s a lot riding on the success (or failure) of our goal to attract more money!  Namely, our peace of mind, happiness, security – and much more.

Placing a strong emphasis on the outcome of money attraction only creates more blockages. The more you think you desperately “need” more money; the more you believe you can’t be happy without it; the more frustrated you get when it isn’t showing up – the longer it’s going to take to attract it.

The good news is that there are a few simple things you can do to make the process easier:

1) Lighten up!

The more tense and serious you are about attracting money, the harder it’s going to be.

If you instead look at it like a fun game, you’ll be devoting a perfect mixture of light, positive energy to the process – which is a natural prosperity attractor! In fact, make it your mission to be lighthearted and easygoing about money and everything else in your life from now on. Not only will you end up attracting more money, but also more love, joy, peace, fun and passion in all areas of your life.

2) Be what you want to attract.

Another common blockage is the perception of “here and there.” You believe you are HERE, in the midst of lack and struggle, and you are trying to get over THERE, where there is peace and abundance aplenty.

What you’ll eventually realize is that there is no “here or there.” There is only right now, and whatever you are communicating to the universe right now is what you are creating in your physical reality. Rather than focusing on trying to ATTRACT more money, BECOME a person who has all the money they could ever need. Think, feel and act as if your goal is already achieved, and the universe will make it so! Focus daily on feeling happy, abundant, peaceful, secure, and grateful and you will attract life circumstances that correspond with those feelings.

3) Let go.

Don’t worry about “how” your money will come. Don’t focus obsessively on winning the lottery, receiving an inheritance or anything else specific.

Let the universe decide how it will come. Keep your eyes open for opportunities to receive more money and act on them if you see them, but otherwise detach and know that it’s on the way! For many people, this is easier said than done, but the more you try to control “how” your abundance comes, the more blockages you create.

Additionally, be sure to let go of WHEN money comes into your life. You might be tempted to set a deadline, but the universe has its own timing and wisdom. Be willing to trust and let go, and you open a gateway for immense blessings to flow into your life.

And finally, when you recognize the increase of abundance, be sure to take time to enjoy the experience of fillings the peace and security you desired.

Then show Your Gratitude, by sharing Your Blessings, with someone you don’t know and who can never repay you.

These are the keys to keeping yourself in the Universal flow of good.  Do this and with time, faith and practice you’ll find it’s easy to live Your ElevatedLife.


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Last summer my Goddaughter and her husband and two young sons came to our beach town for their vacation. Their little boys were four and six years old then. While they were here, there began to be some conversation regarding the possibility of a move for them as a family to the beach. It was so much fun to listen to the adults talk about their feelings about the beach and the ocean and the life style of those who inhabit our little beach town. My Goddaughter was so touched by seeing a mom and her kids arrive at the grocery store on bikes…all of them. She thought it was just so cool that after shopping, everything was placed in the bike-baskets and off they went. She, at that moment, decided that she and her boys could do that too. There was a certain excitement in her voice…that of recognizing the presence of a true possibility. During their time here, one of the boys, JD, said, “Mom, are we living in California now?” She answered by saying, “No we don’t live here. We are just here on our vacation, honey”. JD responded by asking, “Well, are we in California?” “Yes, we are” she answered. His next question was, “Are we living?” She laughed and answered, “Yes”. His understanding was clear…he was indeed “living in California” regardless of what the grown-ups were saying. What I love most about this story is the pure thought process that children use. They just take what’s before them and come to the most obvious conclusion, which more times than not, are truths…children get it!!! It all seemed quite simple to him…I’m in California and I’m living! Well, out of the mouths of babes often come the uncomplicated truths that fill our world. Maybe the adults of the world would be wiser and happier if we would process our information in the same way? Just because we have the ability to think endlessly about something and rationalize beyond any real need, doesn’t mean that we should!! They had a wonderful time “living in California”. As a matter of fact, their time was so wonderful that they made arrangements to sell their house and relocate to the beach. This is a perfect example of pure potentiality. Where there is a desire and a belief, all things are possible. Recently, JD was reported to have said, “Mom, this place just makes my Soul feel good.” Thank you for the wisdom, JD…welcome to the beach!!

5 Steps from Thought to Reality!

The mind can achieve

Anything you want in life is yours for the asking if you tap into the power of your own thoughts.

Is there anything you desire that you feel you can’t achieve?

Does what you really want seem just out of reach?

With a little imagination and faith you can turn your thoughts into reality. And with continued practice you can master the thought powers and think your way to health, happiness and prosperity.

Here are 5 simple step you can use to begin to turn your thoughts into reality.

1. Desire it. Passion is a strong bridge between you and what you want. Ask yourself – how much do you really want this thing you are thinking of? Is it something you can do without, or something you are really passionate about? When focused, passion is powerful force.

2. Be specific. Be very clear about what you want. What you get is only as clear as what you want. If you want a house, see it very clearly on your mind – the architectural design of the interior and exterior, the garden, and more. Set a deadline, otherwise it can turn into just fantasy. When do you want to have that house?

3. Visualize. This is arguably the most powerful tool of the mind. Be the director and leading actor in your own eternal movie. Walk through your dream house, see the sights, smell the scents, feel the feeling of being there. The subconscious mind does not differentiate between a real experience and an imagined experience. So, once you vividly imagine a scene, you are closer to having it manifest in reality. Visualize for a few minutes daily. It’s especially effective when done first thing in the morning and last thing at night.

4. Believe. Fear and doubt stand in the way between you and your dream. Should you feel any doubts, you must believe that the universe will give to you what you desire. The universe is overflowing in blessings and abundance if only you ask and believe! What you believe, the universe gives. If you believe that you will get it, the universe will give it to you. If you believe you won’t, then the universe won’t give it to you.

5. Take inspired action. From your daily visualizations, you may suddenly get a spark of an idea of how to get the house. Or you might meet a person who knows where you can buy your dream house. At these moments, don’t hesitate.  You must say yes to your dreams when the opportunity to have them appears in your mind, take action!  Your willingness to act on your thoughts is the final step on the way to turning your thoughts into reality.

So follow these 5 simple steps and see for yourself. You will never know if it true for you, or not, unless you try it for yourself.

Decide today, to allow your own experience to be your teacher and you too may find, you can indeed turn your thoughts into reality!   When you do, you’ll be living Your ElevatedLife!

About The Author

Dr. Maurice Lynnell is a Self Improvement Coach who has been successfully coaching and guiding clients to their dreams for more than 20 years. Dr. Moe, is a retired U.S. Marine, publisher, broadcaster and entrepreneur. Co-founder of YourElevatedLife.com He can be heard weekly, as host of “Your ElevatedLife” a blog-talk-radio show. He also offers a “21 day Power of Prosperity” e-course. More info or more inspirational and uplifting writings visit: freedailymotivators.info and for his free daily motivators checkout: Free Daily MO’s

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The Elevated Eleven for Gratitude

“Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos into order, and confusion into clarity…. It turns problems into gifts, failures into success, the unexpected into perfect timing, and mistakes into important events. Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today and creates a vision for tomorrow.” ~ Melodie Beattie~

Researchers, Psychologists, and Mental Health experts have collaborated regarding gratitude research and they all agree that these benefits are part of an emerging study. As we go forward on our quest for Inspiration, Happiness and Peace of Mind, we always encourage the practice and awareness of the “Elevated Eleven” benefits regarding gratitude.

Everyone has the opportunity to be uplifted. Gratitude is really an individual choice to develop a consistent habit of expressing heartfelt gratitude. There is no greater power in the Universe than gratitude. Being sincerely thankful is the demonstration of universal love. There is nothing that you cannot be, do or have once you learn to be grateful for everything in your life.  Feeling and expressing Gratitude makes life better for us and for those with whom we share our lives. Until next time…wishing you a life filled with gratitude.

“The Elevated Eleven” benefits of Gratitude

1. Practicing feeling more gratitude leads to higher levels of happiness.

2. When we feel gratitude our energy changes and expands into kindness.

3. When we reciprocate a favor it causes an upward spiral of helping and support.

4. Gratitude creates better social and personal relationships.

5. Gratitude Journals are perfect…Check this out and get yourself one…Even Happier…52 week Gratitude Journal@yourelevatedlife.com

6. Being grateful makes a healthier person in general.

7. Practicing gratitude helps us to have a higher level of control in our environment and personal growth.

8. We develop positive ways of coping with difficulties with gratitude.

9. We sleep better, experience a higher vitality, and have more optimism when we’re grateful.

10. Expressing gratitude helps us become more spiritually aware.

11.  If you would like more tips on how to increase gratitude in your life…go to http://yourelevatedlife.com

About the Author

Savannah Blue is a Freelance Writer, a Spiritual Comforter and Motivator, and an amateur photographer and is also a publisher and entrepreneur. She is the Co-founder and Co-producer of YourElevatedLife and YourElevatedLife Radio Show. She is “Living her Dreams” at the beach with the love of her life and working from home doing what she loves to do…help others live their Dreams!

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Using Your Power to Elevate

An Elevating Superman

An Elevating Superman

Look!     Up in the sky!      It’s a bird!       It’s a plane!

It’s Superman! Yes, it’s Superman! Strange visitor from another planet, who came to earth with powers and abilities far beyond those of mortal men. Superman!

Who can change the the course of mighty rivers, bend steel with bare hands, and who — disguised as Clark Kent, mild-mannered reporter for a great metropolitan newspaper — fights a never ending battle for truth, justice and the American way!

Just like, Superman, we all have many super powers as well.  These powers  for most people are ignored as we move from childhood into adulthood.  Our secret powers may go dormant, but  fortunately they don’t die.  To reawaken your power simply return to the innocent mind of your youth, and remember to use “Your Power to Elevate”.

The human brain normally weighs a little over three pounds in males, and a little under three pounds in females.  Despite this weight difference, the brains of males and females function identically. The subject regarding the parts of the brain, as well as the functions of each particular part, is an intensely convoluted endeavor.

To simplify, the more or less three-pound brain can be divided into three major parts- forebrain, midbrain, and hindbrain.

Houston, we have LIFT OFF !

Houston, we have LIFT OFF !

The forebrain is the largest among the three parts and is considered the center of human intelligence. Intelligence is what sets man apart from animals.

Although something that is akin to intelligence is evident in animals, this manifestation of intelligence-like characteristics is more appropriately referred to as instinct.

Living organisms, both single-celled and multi-celled, have varying levels and means by which instinct is displayed for survival purposes.

When seen under the microscope, single-celled organism like the protozoa can perform basic functions such as the intake of food that they meet along the way, the elimination of waste, and the avoidance of dangerous chemicals or substances. These basic activities are the only things that single-celled organisms are capable of.

On the other hand, multi-celled organisms can do complex activities like moving around to search for food and shelter, and being aware of what is happening in their environment.

In comparison to all other organisms lower in class than man, man is the only being on earth who can think or process the ideas he acquires from experiences, and can decide about the things he want to do.

With thought, man can effect changes, whether these changes mean creation or perdition. Man’s life does not rely on fate alone, but on his own will. The brain enables man to conceptualize creative ideas and gives man the power to make these ideas alive.

The human body is likened to a computer system where the brain serves as the central processing unit (CPU) responsible for controlling all the physiological, psychological and emotional processes that takes place from within.

Hue Man

The attributes of human intelligence, which include thinking, willpower, consciousness, emotion, memory, and the like, depend on the forebrain, specifically in the gray matter of the cerebrum called cortex.

The cortex might be a neutral-colored thing, but this gray matter is the source of all the colors or hues of man’s life. (i.e. human beings)

With the gift of willpower, man has the ability to change the hues of his life, from angry red, to joyful yellow, to sad violet, to hopeful green, etc.

The other major parts of the brain are the midbrain and hindbrain. The midbrain controls reflexes while the hindbrain is responsible for body movement coordination and involuntary actions such as heart rate and respiration.

The forebrain, where thinking is based, sends signals to other parts of the brain to make a person move. Your brain controls your every activity. Although brain activities can now be altered, the best way to maximize your brain potentials is resorting to the natural and non-invasive remedy of maintaining a positive outlook in life.

Think positive thoughts and act on what you think, because your actions serve as your brain’s exercise making it stronger and more flexible.

Leonardo da Vinci once said,
“Iron rusts from disuse, stagnant water loses its purity, and in cold weather becomes frozen; ever so does inaction sap the vigor of the mind.”

So, take control of the one thing you can have total control of, your thoughts, and use them to empower yourself.

You can use the power of positive thought, to live the life you’ve always dreamed of. Use your brains elevating power to lift yourself above the illusion of problem. When you become a student of right thought all things will be possible for you.

About The Author

Dr. Maurice Lynnell is a Self Improvement Coach who has been successfully coaching and guiding clients to their dreams for more than 20 years. Dr. Moe, is a retired U.S. Marine, publisher, broadcaster and entrepreneur. Co-founder of YourElevatedLife.com He can be heard weekly, as host of “Your ElevatedLife” a blog-talk-radio show. He also offers a “21 day Power of Prosperity” e-course. More info or more inspirational and uplifting writings visit: freedailymotivators.info and for his free daily motivators checkout: Free Daily MO’s

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Victim or Willing Participant

False beliefs about ourselves are the delusions which darken the intuitive vision, and when we lift the veil of delusion and see ourselves as we are, thus putting away error of thought and perception, then pain and discomfort drop from us as naturally as leaves in autumn drop from trees. – Malinda Cramer

We are“human beings” being what exactly? There is much drama in our society on a daily basis involving all people in all walks of life. We have daily episodes of drama throughout the world and we seem to like it. We all have heard that if there were nothing but “good news,” no one would be interested.Do you think that’s true? Are we addicted to the drama and the victimization of others and ourselves? If so, what does that mean to each of us personally? Are we the Victims of a negative society and do we have any personal responsibility regarding negativity?

We apparently have no issues with talking at great lengths about our misery or our illness or what we hate or what we dislike or what we can’t stand about someone or how awful Susie or Joe behaved or what hatefulness was being gossiped about around the water cooler or other negative sources that we freely choose to allow in our lives. There are many people who find it easy to look for only what’s wrong. They have lived around negativity for so many years that they have become numb to their actions and its just part of what they do without any thought whatsoever. They are quick to say what’s wrong with other people, with their lives, their work, their day, their relationships, their conduct, or any of several other examples. Many people start their day by turning on the TV and start their day with the negative influx of comments and then experience their day repeating and adding to the negativity and finding someone to blame…seems like lots of people are looking for someone to blame.

The choice that is always present would be the opposite thinking process, that of a lifestyle that involves looking at things with a higher awareness and different perception. It requires that you see and understand the positive aspects of people and situations – instead of just focusing on the negative. If our goal is to produce and live a positive and happy life, then practicing negativity is not the path. Too often we get caught up with the negative opinions, attitudes, actions and thoughts of those around us finding ourselves “in it” and in the end, we have created a negative experience that leaves us unhappy, depressed, hopeless and angry. Not understanding how we got there, we blame someone else and move forward carrying the negative baggage with us. After blaming someone else, then what?

When people engage in negative thinking are they just not thinking “right thoughts” or are they so used to being the Victim that this environment seems like a comfort zone or is there another possibility? In our daily dramas, maybe we are addicted to the drama and we think being the Victim feels good. Everybody seems to be engaged in the drama and having the same thoughts, so why not join in, right? So are we just “fitting in” and “doing what everybody else does” and therefore we are just part of society repeating what’s all over the television and elsewhere. Maybe we are just not aware of what we are doing. Is that possible, to not be aware? Are we engaging in something that we are not aware of or do we somehow believe that negative thinking and talking is acceptable? If your role became something other than a Victim, would your conversation change? There have been many times when I have asked someone who said something negative if they really meant what they said and the most common reply was, “Well, I didn’t mean it that way.” Most of them were angry that I actually asked the question even though I just repeated exactly what they said! I wonder if there is no “thought” given to what is said sometimes.

Maybe negative thinking feels realistic and it helps us “fit in.” Maybe negative thinking and behavior is a lot more fun than positive thinking…maybe its easier…maybe that’s why we do it. Are we truly addicted to the negativity and the dramas? Have you ever thought about what your life would be like without drama and playing the Victim? What would happen if instead of spewing the negative phrases you just said nothing…how uncomfortable would you become? It takes courage to be the “one” that does NOT engage in the negativity. Just politely remove yourself and see what happens. I have done that before and the results were fascinating and my office became a positive environment rather than a gossip hall. And believe it or not, the people in the office were as grateful and as interested in the experiment as I was. Everyone’s life changed dramatically because the thoughts that were being held and behaviors that were being acted out were transformed. “No Negativity Allowed” became our motto.

Positive thinking requires responsibility and consistency. Our belief that the easy button of negative thinking is actually appropriate, and that it works for us is the mistaken perception that leads to a life of “existence and going along” rather than one of “living and being a positive creative force.” We are what we think. Know what thoughts you are holding. If your life is not happy and things don’t seem to be working out for you, spending your time in negativity is a contributing factor. That is what manifesting your negativity means. We can use exactly the same principle used to engage in the negativism to firmly place ourselves in a positive, productive lifestyle. We are the ones who create our feelings and experiences based on what we think. We can chose to hold and interact with only positive thoughts but as it is, we turn away and manifest negativity by blaming someone or something because we are not getting what we want. We are the decision makers of the thoughts we hold and entertain. We can dissolve the negativity instantly if we can just stop empowering our thoughts of separation and our feelings of inadequacy through playing the Victim. Positive thinking has been shown over and over again to improve performance and the quality of life.

Are you the Victim engaging in Negative thought energy dramatized to the max and joining in on negative conversation every chance you get and living the consequences of negative thoughts like worry or anger or jealousy or are you a practitioner of Positive thought energy that creates a life of abundance that is worry and stress free? Everyday brings new choices to you and remember that the thoughts you hold create your life experiences. Take an objective look and determine what your life experiences are made of. A change can happen in a heartbeat; all it takes is just one thought from you. You can be a Victim…or not.

About the Author

Savannah Blue is a Freelance Writer, a Spiritual Comforter and Motivator, and an amateur photographer and is also a publisher and entrepreneur. She is the Co-founder and Co-producer of YourElevatedLife. and Your ElevatedLife Radio Show. She is “Living her Dreams” at the beach with the love of her life and working from home doing what she loves to do…help others live their Dreams!

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21 Characteristics of the Happiest People

Happiness can be found in the strangest places.

Happiness can be found in the strangest places.

“Believe in yourself! Have faith in your abilities! Without a humble but reasonable confidence in your own powers you cannot be successful or happy.” Norman Vincent Peale

In order to be happy, we should make happiness our ultimate goal. If attitude is truly everything, then being happy is definitely a choice.

Although most people would argue against that, I could still declare that being glad and staying glad is my choice. If the truth be told, “If it was that easy everybody would do it. Everybody would jump out of bed and enthusiastically scream, “Good morning, Oh God, I feel Great!” instead of what most say now like, “My God, is it morning?”

The art of being happy involves dedication, concentration and constant injections of inspiration throughout the day.  Not only people, but also places and objects can drain our energy and if we allow them to they can diminish our happiness.

So in an effort to offer assistance in finding and maintaining happiness, we’ve been doing some research on joyful and cheerful people.

We have listed in no particular order, 21 common characteristics of the happiest people. We hope that by adding a few of these to your make up it will help you live a Happier and more ElevatedLife.

1. Happy people will also have happy friends.

2. They know how to be kind, even when they feel or think they are not being treated properly.

3. They live with integrity, they’re honest and sincere with others and with themselves.

4. They often love to listen to music or sing or dance.

5. They really are thankful for what they have, they live with a attitude of gratitude.

6. They recognize the blessings that come their way and constantly show appreciation for them.

7. They receive and likewise share lots of love, compassion and affection.

8. Mostly happy people sleep better and as a result, awake more rested and happier.

9. Happy people eat well and also focus on feeding their body with high quality food.

10. They’re patient with other people and things around them.

11. They’re excited—they always have something to look forward to everyday and welcome the new and exciting adventures that life has in store for them.

12. They simply want the best not just for them but also for people around them.

13. They have a regular exercise or workout regimen and they enjoy it.

14. They are naturally optimistic–they try to practice the fine art of altering negative circumstance to put a positive twist in them.

15. They know how to live and love with passion.

16. They seem to know their purpose or true calling and their engaged in living it.

17. They readily forgive themselves and do not severely beat up on themselves for mistakes.

18. They consistently try to learn new things and are open to fresh and new ideas.

19. They fully understand the significance of self care and well being and make sure that they constantly work toward strengthening their mental health and fitness.

20. They understand the power of praying and are spiritual in their approach to life.

21. They believe that all things are possible and attainable with focus and right effort.

Happiness is happiest when shared... After all, isn't that what it's for?

SomeTimes all it takes To Be HappY is a little Re-focusing

So, now that you’ve read all 21 characteristics, what do you think… how about you— How happy are you? On a scale of one to ten, are you a 3, 5, 7 or maybe, a 12 ?.

Why don’t you try this happiness quiz now and find out.

It’s simple, just try putting a check mark next to the characteristics that describe your personality.

Then pay attention to the areas you didn’t check.

Then ask yourself seriously, “Now, what am I going to do about that?”

The art of being happy takes action, focus, commitment and optimism.   Life at times can seem to be full of negative influences.  There are many things you can do to raise our happiness level a little each day.   Start by incorporating one of the characteristics from above.

Then continue by visit our services page for useful books and other helpful free tools.
Listen, life is for living and loving and you will be better at both, when you master happiness, on your way to Your ElevatedLife.

About The Author

Dr. Maurice Lynnell is a Life Coach and Self Improvement Facilitator who has been successfully coaching and guiding clients to their dreams for more than 20 years. Dr. Moe, as he is affectionately known offers a practical approach enabling his clients to achieve the profound and lasting change they desire. He’s is a former U.S. Marine, publisher and entrepreneur and co-founder of yourelevatedlife.com.  And can be heard weekly as host of “Your ElevatedLife” a blog-talk-radio show. He offers inspiration and simple techniques, topped with compassion. For more information and to get your copy of his free Prosperity E course visit: http://freedailymotivators.info

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Elevation and The Law

During the Rain, above the Clouds, the Sun always Shines

During the Rain, above the Clouds, the Sun always Shines

There are several laws that govern everyone in this world.

This is regardless of age, race, sex, nationality, or religious background. By virtue of their being universal and all encompassing, these laws cannot be changed, nor can they be broken. The most powerful among which is the universal law of attraction.

What is stated in the universal law of attraction? To put in very simple terms, it simply says that you get what you give. If you give off positive energy, you get back positive energy. If you emit negative energy, then you shouldn’t be surprised when something negative comes back to you. The universal law of attraction is very similar to the law of Karma, which also espouses the ‘like attracts like’ principle.

Every human being is a magnet for different kinds of events and situations. Whether or not we deliberately give out positive and negative energy, the law of attraction is at play.

In fact, it is so powerful that some people use the principles of the law as their mantra in order to lead very positive and manageable lives. It gives reinforcement to the golden rule, which says, “do unto others what you want them to do unto you”.

How do you take advantage of the universal law of attraction to live a more calm and stress-free life? Consider these tips:

1.You should know what you want and be very clear about your intentions. The more you focus on your goal, the greater your chances of getting it in the future. When you have a fixed end in mind, all your actions now and in the coming days will be for the accomplishment of this goal.

2.Visualize what you want to happen. The more you take your goal to heart, the more inspired you will be to seek ways to reach it. If you visualize the moment when you are holding that particular goal in the palm of your hand, the greater the push of positive energy on you to seek it.

3.When the moment comes, seize it. You are given at least one chance, one opportunity to grab life, and take it by the reins. Do not let your passion scare you too much and drive you away when all that you have been searching for finally arrives.

4.Take action. Once you have your goal, exercise all means to stay focused. You will be able to do so if you stay focused on positive energy. The good vibes will keep you motivated and strong.

At this point, it should be noted that the law of attraction does not just show you how you attract the positive. It is also a reminder of the many negative things that could come your way. Thus, if you want to live an inspired, elevated life, you must focus on and practice only the good thoughts you desire.

Whatever you focus on, is your practice and way of living and must sooner or later become your life experience. You are under this law and it doesn’t matter if you know and accept it or not.  Your thoughts are creating your life experience. So, why not raise your thoughts and start living your ElevatedLife now.

About The Author

Dr. Maurice Lynnell is a Life Coach and Self Improvement Facilitator who has been successfully coaching and guiding clients to their dreams for more than 20 years. Dr. Moe, as he is affectionately known offers a practical approach enabling his clients to achieve the profound and lasting change they desire.  He’s is a former U.S. Marine, a minister, publisher and entrepreneur and co-founder of yourelevatedlife.com . And can be heard weekly as host of “Your ElevatedLife” a blog-talk-radio show. He offers inspiration and simple techniques, topped with compassion. For more information and to get your copy of his free Prosperity E course visit: http://freedailymotivators.info

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